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17 Best Fiction Books for Men in 2024

Whether you’re looking for a compelling series of audio books for your commute, a quick pick to take on vacation or a recommendation for a male reader in your life, this list compiles the best fiction for men.  

What do these stories have in common?  Male protagonists facing overwhelming odds, strong heroes in the face of danger and compelling story lines.

My top picks for best fiction for men are A Time for Mercy, The Kremlin Conspiracy and Peace Like a River.

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Beneath a Scarlet Sky by Mark Sullivan

Wow. What an incredible story. 

Although technically listed as fiction, since not everything could be verified and dialogue had to be re-created, the book is based on the real life of Pino Lella.

As a seventeen year old and eighteen year old living in Italy during the German occupation of 1944-45, Pino did what he could to oppose Hitler’s regime. He guided Jewish refugees over the Alps to safety in Switzerland. He accepted a German military uniform and continued to help the resistance from inside the ranks. 

I continue to be amazed at the courage of ordinary people in the face of evil. It’s an inspiration for us to be like the boy with his loaves and fishes and offer the little we have when faced with great need.

A Time for Mercy by John Grisham

This novel features the lawyer Jake Brigance who captured hearts in the legal thriller, A Time to Kill. The setting is 1990 in Mississippi. Jake defends 16 year old Drew Gamble, accused of murder.  

John Grisham’s genius is being able to portray a whole community, down to it’s interwoven relationships, systems and culture. The diner scenes, the friendships between the players in small town America and the intricacies of how the legal system serves justice along with the possibility that justice will not be served. 

The Kremlin Conspiracy by Joel C Rosenberg

This is the first book of five (so far) of the Marcus Ryker series, international intrigue at it’s finest. Rosenberg takes on the hotspots of the world and is able to articulate the culture and motivations of the major players. 

For fans of Jack Reacher and Jason Bourne.

Sackett’s Land by Louis L’Amour

If you’re new to Louis L’Amour, I recommend starting with the first book in the Sackett series. There’s seventeen books in the series that follows the Sackett family from their roots in England to their descendants populating the New World.

Louis L’Amour weaves compelling tales that has you turning pages. 

If you’re looking for a stand alone, try Hondo

Dark Matter by Blake Crouch

Blake Crouch’s books are often called mind bending sci-fi. 

In Dark Matter, Jason Dessen is abducted from his life and wakes up in an alternate reality. No longer married with a family. No longer a physics professor. His personal history has been replaced and he doesn’t know how or if he can get it back. 

The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexander Dumas

One of my husband’s favorite novels that he re-reads every five years or so. 

Imprisoned for a crime he did not commit, Edmond Dantes learns of the hidden treasure on the Isle of Monte Cristo. He plots his revenge on the men responsible for his unfair incarceration. 

The epic drama contains a host of characters and story threads that are expertly woven to a satisfying conclusion. 

The Lord of the Rings by JRR Tolkien

The hobbits Frodo, Merry, Pippin and Sam are unlikely heroes in a quest for power that encompasses five armies. But, as guardians of the ring of power, they find themselves in the epicenter of the conflict. 

This drama is immersive as Tolkien has created a world complete with languages, history and the epic clash of good and evil. 

The Call of the Wild by Jack London

Not only does Jack London paint vivid pictures of the great white north, he also has a way of telling animal stories. Survival against the elements is the perfect back drop to tell the story of the relationship between dog and man. 

To start reading the free ebook version at Project Gutenberg, click here: The Call of the Wild by Jack London.

Gentleman in Moscow by Amor Towles

What if you were nobility in Russia in the nineteen twenties who is under house arrest at a posh hotel stripped of titles and wealth? Could you still build a life for yourself? Make the human connections and community that everyone needs to survive? 

This is a slow moving book, especially the first half. It took me two or three tries to get all the way through it. I don’t think I would have stuck with it if it hadn’t come highly recommended from people I respected, but I’m glad I did.  

I didn’t love Towles’ Rules of Civility, but I did like The Lincoln Highway, which is another near miss for Commendable Lit.

Peace Like a River by Lief Enger

Told through the eyes of an eleven year old boy, the novel is not about a span of time, it covers one year.

Rueben is the eleven year old, Swede, his younger sister, and Davy their older brother. They live with their father out west, growing up in a modest life. 

Circumstances dictate a search for answers to a reality that doesn’t add up.

This Tender Land by William Kent Krueger

“The unforgettable story of four orphans who travel the Mississippi River on a life-changing odyssey during the Great Depression.”—from Amazon

The story is told through Odie O’Banion’s adolescent eyes. 

It’s his quest for home, family and the meaning of life. Along for the ride are his brother Albert and his friends Mose and Emmy. 

The human experience is more complicated than most novelists are able to express. There’s the complexity of human nature and relationships, the complexity of our belief system and how our experience influences our beliefs. I feel like This Tender Land wrestled with that complexity and won. 

It doesn’t downplay the true depravity of man. It has lots of plot twists.

The novelist deals with the most delicate of subjects in an inoffensive way. 

There was one element of the book I didn’t care for, but it wasn’t enough to ruin it for me. 

It reminded me of Peace Like a River. I’ll want to read it again and again.

Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir

“Ryland Grace is the sole survivor on a desperate, last-chance mission—and if he fails, humanity and the earth itself will perish.

Except that right now, he doesn’t know that. He can’t even remember his own name, let alone the nature of his assignment or how to complete it.

All he knows is that he’s been asleep for a very, very long time. And he’s just been awakened to find himself millions of miles from home, with nothing but two corpses for company.

His crewmates dead, his memories fuzzily returning, Ryland realizes that an impossible task now confronts him. Hurtling through space on this tiny ship, it’s up to him to puzzle out an impossible scientific mystery—and conquer an extinction-level threat to our species.

And with the clock ticking down and the nearest human being light-years away, he’s got to do it all alone.

Or does he?”–from Amazon

All the elements of a great survival story as well as science fiction at it’s best. I loved it.

The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho 

The story is about a young man trying to make his way in life and wrestling with all of life’s big questions: love, loss, meaningful work and what really matters. 

I found this parable intriguing.  More a life philosophy than novel, there was a lot of great food for thought.  Why do we keep pursuing our dreams?  How do we keep going after loss?  What is true treasure in life?  What is worth the sacrifice?

The Virginian by Owen Wister

Owen Wister has been credited with starting the genre of the Western, with his story of the unnamed cowboy, the Virginian. 

Wister explores the justice of the newly settle West, the relationships, the quest for man to build their own kingdoms and fence them. The country was captivated by the tales of the people who lived untamed lives on untamed land.

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Books Like The Chronicles of Narnia

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My top picks for fans of The Chronicles of Narnia

  1. The Hobbit
  2. Once Upon a Wardrobe
  3. A Place to Hang the Moon
  4. The Wingfeather Saga
  5. A Single Shard

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Great Reads for Adult Fans of the Chronicles of Narnia

The Screwtape Letters by C. S. Lewis

Wormwood is writing to an underdevil giving him advice on how to trip up humans, specifically one human who has become a Christian. 

Of course Lewis is writing tongue in cheek since his conversion from atheism to Christianity has been well documented. 

The Space Triology by C.S. Lewis

Not as well known or as popular as the Chronicles of Narnia, Lewis wrote a space trilogy for adults that features space travel from earth to other planets.

Becoming Mrs. Lewis by Patti Callahan

C.S. Lewis has always been one of my favorite authors and The Chronicles of Narniathe pinnacle in children’s literature, in my opinion. Even though I knew the basic facts of the love story between Lewis and Joy Davidman, Becoming Mrs.  Lewis fleshed out the story in a probable narrative of their relationship.

I came to see her as an unsung hero in Lewis’ life.

There’s nothing like an inside peek at the life of one of the world’s greatest writers.

 Once Upon a Wardrobe by Patti Callahan

Once Upon a Wardrobe does a deep dive into the question of why C.S. Lewis wrote the Chronicles of Narnia. History is woven into the fictional scenario of Megs Devonshire trying to get answers for her chronically ill brother who has fallen in love with the recently published children’s book, The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe.

Megs is a student at Oxford in 1950, so she is able to gain access to the literary legend. But, of course, her straight forward questions don’t get straight forward answers. Instead, we learn the background, history and influences on the man behind the fantasies. 

Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien

J.R.R. Tolkien, a friend of C.S. Lewis, was reportedly critical of The Chronicles of Narnia because Lewis included a mishmash of legend and fantasy. 

Tolkien’s fantasy world of Middle Earth was elaborate and internally consistent, down to the elfin language that he invented. 

The epic trilogy traces hundreds of years of Middle Earth history, culminating in a great war between kingdoms and species for power and control. Dwarves, elves, hobbits, humans and wizards fight against a range of unsavory beasts for domination. 

Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir

“Ryland Grace is the sole survivor on a desperate, last-chance mission—and if he fails, humanity and the earth itself will perish.

Except that right now, he doesn’t know that. He can’t even remember his own name, let alone the nature of his assignment or how to complete it.

All he knows is that he’s been asleep for a very, very long time. And he’s just been awakened to find himself millions of miles from home, with nothing but two corpses for company.

His crewmates dead, his memories fuzzily returning, Ryland realizes that an impossible task now confronts him. Hurtling through space on this tiny ship, it’s up to him to puzzle out an impossible scientific mystery—and conquer an extinction-level threat to our species.

And with the clock ticking down and the nearest human being light-years away, he’s got to do it all alone.

Or does he?”–from Amazon

All the elements of a great survival story as well as science fiction at it’s best. I loved it.

The Shack by William Paul Young

An innocent little girl is abducted and murdered. Her father wrestles, struggles with his grief and doubt. 

How can a good and loving God allow horrific things to happen to good people? 

The Shack is a fictional tale written to convey spiritual truths. In this way it mirrors what Lewis was doing in his Narnia books. 

This is a question that trips up so many, those who embrace Christian doctrines as well as those that reject it. 

This Present Darkness by Frank Peretti

The unseen world of the spiritual realm has been captured in fiction by Frank Peretti. The principalities and powers battle against each other as light and darkness fight without human witnesses. 

We tend to live without giving much attention to what is happening in the spiritual realms. A glimpse into how it might play out is not a bad idea. 

The Hiding Place by Corrie ten Boom

Unlike Narnia, The Hiding Place is the true story of Corrie ten Boom and her family hiding Jews in Holland during World War II. 

The themes of the book also deal with faith in God during horrific circumstances. 

What it’s about:

The ten Boom family lived Holland during the German occupation of their country during World War II. Living out their faith demanded that they hide Jews from the regime. These actions had consequences that continued to test their faith. 

What I loved:

The faith and courage of Corrie ten Boom. It was the lifetime faith of generations that caused her family to protect God’s chosen people, the Jews, from the evil of Hitler’s regime. 

What you should know:

The story of the ten Boom family might challenge your concept of God’s sovereignty. How can a loving, all-powerful God allow the events of World War II to occur? 

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Great Reads for Kids and Teen Fans of The Chronicles of Narnia

Wingfeather Saga by Andrew Peterson

On the Edge of the Dark Sea of Darkness is the first book in the series.

“Janner Igiby, his brother, Tink, and their disabled sister, Leeli, are gifted children as all children are, loved well by a noble mother and ex-pirate grandfather. But they will need all their gifts and all that they love to survive the evil pursuit of the venomous Fangs of Dang, who have crossed the dark sea to rule the land with malice. The Igibys hold the secret to the lost legend and jewels of good King Wingfeather of the Shining Isle of Anniera.”– From Amazon

To be frank, it’s taken several attempts to read this book to see why it comes so highly recommended. I didn’t find it to be engaging until about halfway through, but I’m glad I stayed with it to find it really is a jewel of a book.

The Hobbit by J.R.R.Tolkien

The Lord of the Rings trilogy is a complex epic with lots of characters, backstory, timeline and geography. 

The Hobbit is a good introduction to Middle Earth that is more easily understood by kids (and adults looking for an easier read.)

One of literature’s ultimate hero’s journeys, the story of Bilbo Baggins resonates deeply, even if you’re not a homebody. Bilbo certainly wasn’t out looking for adventure, because hobbits are fond of regular meals and the comforts of home. 

But, if there’s a wizard and a dragon, a quest, danger, travel companions to help and hinder, a magic ring and some treasure, it all adds up to a satisfying tale with uncanny parallels to life as we know it. 

The Penderwicks by Jeanne Birdsall

Four motherless girls on vacation with their father.  Their romps with pets, neighbors and each other:  a simple, but satisfying plot.

5 Stars!  I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this whimsical story. (That’s a lotta love.)  I read it to the teens in my carpool, since I don’t have any little kids to read it too.  I gave it to my nieces and nephews, too.

I loved the uplifting, engaging characters.  Real heroes.  Great values.   Whimsical.

A Single Shard by Linda Sue Park

A Single Shard is a compelling story for all ages.

Tree-ear is an orphan who lives with Crane-Man under a bridge. He’s fascinated by the work of a  master potter in the village and dreams of the day when he can throw a pot on the wheel. Twelfth century Korea sets the stage for an inside look at the art of pottery, honorable poverty and the cries of an orphan boy’s heart.

There’s so many positive life lessons taught in the story. The value of work, instead of stealing or begging. Take care of each other. Give to those in need. Preserve the dignity and honor of others. Don’t give up on your dreams. Be loyal to friends and family. Don’t take ideas that you learned from stealth or thievery. 

I love this story. I love what it teaches. Highly recommended for all ages, beginning about age 6 or 7 as a read aloud. 

The audio version read by Graeme Malcolm is excellent. The listening length is 3 hours and 12 minutes. 

A Place to Hang the Moon by Kate Albus

William, Edmund and Anna are siblings who are evacuated from London to the country during World War II. Their deep desire for home and family drive the story, even while they aim to be family to each other. 

A love of literature is integral to the story and revisiting my childhood favorites was fun. There’s echoes of Narnia throughout as well as nods to other classic children’s lit.  

I wish I hadn’t read the story synopsis before reading this sweet, heart-warming story.

Don’t read the reviews. Just dive in. 

Charlotte’s Web by E.B. White

I’m fond of E. B. White’s classic, Stuart Little, but Charlotte’s Web comes out on top for me. Maybe it’s that (spoiler) Charlotte’s death made me cry when I first read it as an eight year old. 

It never occurred to me before that this is a redemption story, but so it is. Charolotte the spider’s mission is to save her friend, Wilbur the pig, from the butcher’s block. Warm and wise and full of truth just like all the best children’s literature. One of my favorite scenes is when Fern’s mother seeks out the doctor’s advice because her daughter claims to have conversations with the barnyard animals and the doctor is open to the possibility that maybe she does communicate with animals.

Charlie and the Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl

Roal Dahl’s classics, such as James and the Giant Peach, have pleased children and adults for decades. I have a soft spot for Charlie Bucket up against the spoiled and privileged children who found golden tickets and won a tour of Willie Wonka’s mysterious chocolate factory.

Every kid and kid at heart wants to be a winner. Rooting for Charlie is just so satisfying.

The Princess Academy by Shannon Hale

What if you lived in a small kingdom where the prince chooses his bride from the graduates of the Princess Academy?

What if you had the chance for an education that would never be possible otherwise?

I loved this middle grade novel for telling a tale of what could be, the power of knowledge, friendships and courage.

One of my favorite parts of Princess Academy was how they snuck in principles of Commerce and Negotiation. It was fun how that played out.

There were a few weird and whimsical twists, but every fairy tale needs a little magic.

Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery

Anne is a herione universally loved by girls and remembered fondly by women. Of course, so much of the charm is Anne herself–spunky, competitive, fiercely loyal, throughly human. 

And who can resist Gilbert Bythe who shows his affection in the manner of red blooded boys everywhere?

But some of the appeal of Anne is the wistfulness of small town community where the gossips whisper and pass judgment and the sons and daughters marry their neighbors and hearts are broken never to see healing through the decades. And underlying it all is the deep longing for home and family.

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If you’re wondering about Christian themes and symbols in the Narnia books, read my post Are the Chronicles of Narnia Christian?

16 Best Clean Books for Kids and Teens

If you’ve been appalled at stories produced today that are aimed at kids and teens, you know there’s a wide range of books, movies and tv programs and finding the good ones can be challenging. 

Leaving our reading choices to algorithms is a bad idea, whether it’s the kids in our lives or ourselves. 

It takes some effort to do the research to make sure that what your kids are getting aligns with your beliefs. 

Let me help you. 

These titles are handpicked with an eye toward good writing, absence of profanity, good storylines and morality depicted favorably.

My Top Picks for Clean Books for Kids and Teens 

  • The Chronicles of Narnia
  • The Penderwicks
  • A Single Shard
  • Okay for Now
  • P.S. I Like You

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Clean Books for Older Kids

A Little Princess by Frances Hodgeson Burnett

One of my lifetime favorites, A Little Princess tells the story of Sara Crewe leaving India and her beloved father to go to boarding school in England. 

A girl of vivd imagination and story telling gifts, she leans on those gifts to survive heartbreak and tragedy.

Begin reading this book immediately following this link to the complete ebook at Project Gutenberg  A Little Princess by Frances Hodgeson Burnett

Caddie Woodlawn by Carol Ryrie Brink

Caddie Woodlawn is perhaps an under appreciated classic.

Caddie is the spunky spirited heroine growing up during the Little House on the Prairie era. 

My husband has fond memories of hearing this read aloud by his teacher in elementary school. He remembered the story, but forgot the title of the book. Stumbling across it decades later felt like reuniting with an old friend. 

Holes by Louis Sachar

Stanley Yelnats has been unfairly sentenced to juvenile work camp at Green Lake. The boys are required to dig holes in the desert sun. 

But there’s something mysterious going on connected to a decades old events that transpired before the lake dried out. Can Stanley and his friends get to the bottom of it before the perpetrators take revenge? 

The Penderwicks by Jeanne Birdsall

Four motherless girls on vacation with their father.  Their romps with pets, neighbors and each other:  a simple, but satisfying plot.

5 Stars!  I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this whimsical story. (That’s a lotta love.)  I read it to the teens in my carpool, since I don’t have any little kids to read it too.  I gave it to my nieces and nephews, too.

I loved the uplifting, engaging characters.  Real heroes.  Great values.   Whimsical.

The Great Brain by John D. Fitzgerald

Hilarious antics and adventures of a clever boy growing up more than a century ago. 

His ability to connive, wheel and deal, get in and out of scrapes and come out on top is impressive and amusing.

Based on the memories of the author and his older brother, Tom’s childhood days growing up in Utah. 

The War That Saved My Life  by Kimberly Brubaker Bradley

“Nine-year-old Ada has never left her one-room apartment. Her mother is too humiliated by Ada’s twisted foot to let her outside. So when her little brother Jamie is shipped out of London to escape the war, Ada doesn’t waste a minute—she sneaks out to join him.

So begins a new adventure of Ada, and for Susan Smith, the woman who is forced to take the two kids in. As Ada teaches herself to ride a pony, learns to read, and watches for German spies, she begins to trust Susan—and Susan begins to love Ada and Jamie. But in the end, will their bond be enough to hold them together through wartime? Or will Ada and her brother fall back into the cruel hands of their mother?” — from GoodReads

Great story.

The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis

“Fantastic creatures, heroic deeds, epic battles in the war between good and evil, and unforgettable adventures come together in this world where magic meets reality, which has been enchanting readers of all ages for over sixty years. The Chronicles of Narnia has transcended the fantasy genre to become a part of the canon of classic literature.”– from GoodReads

In my opinion, Lewis’ Chronicles of Narnia appeals to every age.

Lewis tells compelling stories with an amazing economy of words.  He weaves timeless truths into  tales that highlight the classic conflict between good and evil.

I can’t recommend them highly enough.

A Single Shard by Linda Sue Park

A Single Shard is a compelling story for all ages.

Tree-ear is an orphan who lives with Crane-Man under a bridge. He’s fascinated by the work of a  master potter in the village and dreams of the day when he can throw a pot on the wheel. Twelfth century Korea sets the stage for an inside look at the art of pottery, honorable poverty and the cries of an orphan boy’s heart.

There’s so many positive life lessons taught in the story. The value of work, instead of stealing or begging. Take care of each other. Give to those in need. Preserve the dignity and honor of others. Don’t give up on your dreams. Be loyal to friends and family. Don’t take ideas that you learned from stealth or thievery. 

I love this story. I love what it teaches. Highly recommended for all ages, beginning about age 6 or 7 as a read aloud. 

The audio version read by Graeme Malcolm is excellent. The listening length is 3 hours and 12 minutes. 

Okay for Now by Gary Schmidt

“In this companion novel to The Wednesday Wars, Doug struggles to be more than the “skinny thug” that some people think him to be. He finds an unlikely ally in Lil Spicer, who gives him the strength to endure an abusive father, the suspicions of a town, and the return of his oldest brother, forever scarred, from Vietnam. Schmidt expertly weaves multiple themes of loss and recovery in a story teeming with distinctive, unusual characters and invaluable lessons about love, creativity, and survival.”– from Amazon

Excellent book. LOVED it. 

Deals with so many important themes.

Abusive parent. War veterans. Learning disabilities. Young love. Poverty. Predjudice.

There’s just so much there. And the story is so satisfying.

You know how it is? When a story is satisfying? When all the right people win in the end and the rest get what they deserve?

The Princess Academy by Shannon Hale

What if you lived in a small kingdom where the prince chooses his bride from the graduates of the Princess Academy?

What if you had the chance for an education that would never be possible otherwise?

I loved this middle grade novel for telling a tale of what could be, the power of knowledge, friendships and courage.

One of my favorite parts of Princess Academy was how they snuck in principles of Commerce and Negotiation. It was fun how that played out.

There were a few weird and whimsical twists, but every fairy tale needs a little magic.

Clean Books for Younger Teens

Little Women by Louisa May Alcott

A classic for a reason, generations have grown up with the escapades of Meg, Jo, Beth and Amy.

Patterned after the author’s own home life, the stories of the four sisters ring true. Each sister is endearing in their own way. 

The book contains not so much a plot as a journey as each one reaches to fulfill their destiny. 

Cheaper by the Dozen by Frank B Gilbreth and Ernestine Gilbreth Carey

What if you grew up in family of twelve children? 

The authors of Cheaper by the Dozen draw from the memories of their childhood days in a big family.

Laugh out loud stories and heart warming tales about the love and logistics of a large family. 

The Last Bookshop in London by Madeline Martin

Grace Bennett moves to London in 1939. The war is ramping up. Air raids and the fragility of life are daily uncertainty.  But a job at a bookstore teaches Grace the power of the written word and friendships forged during trying times endure.  

The Downstairs Girl by Stacy Lee

Jo Kuan works as a ladies’ maid in Atlanta in the 1890’s, but she also moonlights as the popular advice columnist, Miss Sweetie. Anonymously answering questions in the newspaper gives her the chance to address some social issues. 

I enjoyed this wholesome story and recommend it for all ages. 

Lovely War by Julie Berry

Officially a Young Adult book, but one adults will like as well.  

It’s set in World War I and II and follows two couples— Hazel and James and Aubrey and Collette as they navigate, war, prejudice and their relationships.

P.S. I Like You by Kasie West

Lily is trading messages in Chemistry class with an unknown correspondent. It starts out with similar tastes in music, but then they start commiserating about life problems. Along with normal challenges of being a junior in high school, now Lily has to deal with a mysterious friendship that might turn into something more. 

A sweet romance in the tradition of Daddy Long Legs, Dear Mr. Knightly and Shop Around the Corner. 

23 Best Free Online Books for Kids

My top picks for best free online books for kids are The Tale of Peter Rabbit, Winnie-the-Pooh, A Little Princess and The Wonderful Wizard of Oz

Best Free Online Books for the Littlest Kids (3-5)

The wonderful illustrations of Beatrix Potter are the heart of her books, of course, so it’s important to get a version that has them like the ones at Project Gutenberg. Peter Rabbit and his animal friends continue to charm kids generation after generation.

The Tale of Peter Rabbit

The Tale of Benjamin Bunny

The Tale of Jemima Puddle Duck

The Tale of Mr. Jeremy Fisher

The Tale of the Flopsy Bunnies

Best Free Online Books for Younger Kids (6-8)

Winnie-the-Pooh by A. A. Milne

Who doesn’t love the bear who’s stuffed with fluff? Along with his sidekicks Piglet, Tigger and Eeyore, Pooh leads us back to simpler times when the quest for honey and friendship are enough to satisfy.

Wind in the Willows by Kenneth Grahme

Kenneth Grahme’s classic has delighted readers for more than a century. Mole, Rat, Toad and Badger are friends who adventure together, explore true friendship and stage interventions. It is a universal commentary on human nature, because we all know someone like Toad, an enthusiast always jumping into the next great thing and landing in a heap of trouble. The original edition can be appreciated by older kids and teens. Adults will engage at a different level.

Grimm’s Fairy Tales by Jacob Grimm and Wilhelm Grimm

Hansel and Gretel, Rapunzel, The Goose Girl, Briar Rose and Rumpelstiltskin have woven their way into the fabric of our culture. Retellings abound and give tribute to their staying power in our imaginations.

Hans Christian Andersen’s Fairy Tales

The Emperor’s New Clothes and The Little Match Girl are two of my favorites in this collection.

In my article about teaching empathy to kids through stories, I talk about how the picture Andersen draws of little match girl can stir up compassion for her pitiable circumstances.

A Little Princess by Frances Hodgeson Burnett

One of my lifetime favorites, A Little Princess tells the story of Sara Crewe leaving India and her beloved father to go to boarding school in England. A girl of vivd imagination and story telling gifts, she leans on those gifts to survive heartbreak and tragedy.

 Heidi by Johanna Spyri

The simple, well-loved story of Heidi growing up in the mountains with her grandfather continues to touch generations of readers. The story is a great example of character development winning out over plot. 

 The Wonderful Wizard of Oz by L. Frank Baum

The beginning of Dorothy’s adventures in the magical land of Oz with the Scarecrow, the Tin Man and the Cowardly Lion. Like all enduring classics, it highlights recognizable principles of human nature. The Wonderful Wizard of Oz is actually the first book in a long series about Oz. I read it to my kids and my son enjoyed it so much he took off reading more books in the series. 

 Pollyanna by Eleanor H. Porter

Enter sour old Miss Polly and sweet hard-working Nancy and the captivating motor mouth Pollyanna, who’s learned to look on the bright side. I forgot how much I liked this one and got sucked in recently. I have to admit the ending is a little trite, but that’s a small price to pay for enjoying Pollyanna’s company. 

Best Free Books Online for Older Kids (ages 9 and up)

 Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery

Anne is a herione universally loved by girls and remembered fondly by women.

Of course, so much of the charm is Anne herself, spunky, competitive, fiercely loyal, throughly human.

Click here for the audio version of Anne of Green Gables.

Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland by Lewis Carroll

In the spirit of transparency, I admit I’ve never been a big fan of Alice in Wonderland. But, I can recognize that it is classic children’s lit with decades of devotion and a big following. So I leave it to you to introduce a favorite to the next generation or discover Alice for the first time or move on to something else. 

Peter Pan by J.M. Barrie

We can identify with Peter Pan, the boy who never grew up, and Wendy, Michael and John Darling who wanted to fly along with the lost boys, pirates, mermaids and Indians who populate Neverland. Barry somehow succeeded in capturing so many of our childhood fantasies and wrapped them all up into an enduring tale. 

The Call of the Wild by Jack London

Not only does Jack London paint vivid pictures of the great white north, he also has a way of telling animal stories. Survival against the elements is the perfect back drop to tell the story of the relationship between dog and man. 

 Girl of the Limberlost by Gene Stratton Porter 

I heard about a genre of fiction called eco-fiction on the What Should I Read Next? podcast. I think A Girl of the Limberlost would fit into that category with it’s beautiful descriptions of nature.

Gene Stratton Porter weaves a fascinating story around so many details of flora and fauna. She was a naturalist before she became a novelist, before she became a film maker.

I’ve seen the house she built in Northern Indiana, a work of art that stands in all it’s glory more than a century later.

If you enjoy a “close to the earth” novel, this one’s for you.

Click here for the audio version of A Girl of the Limberlost.

Freckles by Gene Stratton-Porter

Another of my top picks from Gene Straton Porter is the story of Freckles, a handicapped boy who found his purpose and meaning living close to the earth.

Butterflies, birds, trees and plants. These are all Gene Straton Porter’s domain and she is a master at making them as much a part of the story as the humans and animals themselves. Clearly a student of human nature as well as a naturalist, she is able to capture the emotions and relationships in clear detail that is a joy to read.

 Swiss Family Robinson by Johann David Wyss

It’s almost hard to imagine why the story of a shipwrecked family on a deserted island is so fascinating, but it is. The mom and dad and four boys survive, they build, they entertain themselves. Simple and satisfying. 

Treasure Island by Robert Louis Stevenson

Another well-known classic that is still loved today. Jim Hawkins stumbles into the world of Pirates and buried treasure. Treasure maps marked with an X, one legged pirates with parrots on their shoulders and other pirate lore can be traced back to the masterful story telling in Treasure Island. 

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Little Women by Louisa May Alcott

A classic for a reason, generations have grown up with the escapades of Meg, Jo, Beth and Amy. Patterned after the author’s own home life, the stories of the four sisters ring true. Each sister is endearing in their own way. 

The book contains more of a journey than a plot as each one reaches to fulfill her destiny.
 Black Beauty by Anna Sewell

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I don’t know when writers started writing horse stories, but Black Beauty has to be among the first, published in 1877. The story is told from the horse’s point of view. Black Beauty’s world was a time before cars when the horse played a different role in society than today. Whether or not you love horses, you can still appreciate a tale of man and horse in a simpler time. 

 

Near Miss Clean Books: 7 PG Fiction for Adults

These are all compelling books that are near misses for my designation of clean books, Commendable Lit. They contain some language, immorality or slightly objectionable content.  They’re clean-ish

But, they are all compelling, well-written or just intriguing breezy reads. 

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All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr

Marie Laure, a French girl who has been blind since age 6, lives with her father in Paris in the 1940s. When the Germans invade France, they are forced to flee, carrying with them a valuable museum piece. A German boy, Werner, has a knack for electronics and rises in the Hitler Youth program. He is part of the German invasion when he meets Marie Laure. 

Heralded as a modern literary masterpiece, beautiful writing enhances a thoughtful plot.  

The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society by Mary Ann Shaffer and Annie Barrows

Juliet begins corresponding to members of a book club on the island of Guernsey during German occupation in World War II. The story is built the letters back and forth. 

Interesting characters and a satisfying plot line. 

Lots of buzz about this book for good reason.   

Things You Save in a Fire by Katherine Center

Cassie is a good firefighter who finds herself out of work. She’s estranged from her mother but finds work close to her in an all male firehouse. New alliances help her confront the ghosts of the past. 

This was a page turner. I read it in less than 48 hours. There’s very few books I stay up late for any more. This was one of them.

Remarkably Bright Creatures by Shelby Van Pelt

Compelling story. 

Everyone who reviews this book gets taken by the octopus as a main character. Of course you have to suspend belief when the octopus gives his opinions, but once you accept him as a legitimate character, the rest of the book rings true to life. 

Gentleman in Moscow by Amor Towles

What if you were nobility in Russia in the nineteen twenties who is under house arrest at a posh hotel stripped of titles and wealth? Could you still build a life for yourself? Make the human connections and community that everyone needs to survive? 

This is a slow moving book, especially the first half. It took me two or three tries to get all the way through it. I don’t think I would have stuck with it if it hadn’t come highly recommended from people I respected, but I’m glad I did.  

Be prepared for brief scenes that aren’t morally commendable. 

I didn’t love Amor Towles’ Rules of Civility, but I did like The Lincoln Highway, which is another near miss for Commendable Lit. 

Nora Goes Off Script by Annabel Monaghan

So what’s it really like to be a Hollywood star? What’s your relationship like with regular people? Could you fall in love with them? 

This breezy read explores those questions in an uncomplicated, satisfying way. 

Jayber Crow by Wendell Berry

Set in small town America, it’s the story of one man’s life, from his childhood till old age. The community plays an important part of the story and Jayber Crow serves as the town’s barber. 

Except for one objectionable element in the storyline, it’s a heart-warming tale. 

A literary masterpiece. 

Wendell Berry’s Hannah Coulter is one of my life time favorite top 10 books. 

See more books like Hannah Coulter. 

How to Create Your # 1 Favorite Book Genre: Introducing Commendable Lit!

favorite book genre

Finding a great book is hard. Finding your favorite book genre is harder. One problem is that books don’t have content ratings like movies. You want to avoid a bad reading experience, but you don’t want spoilers about the plot. Not only do you want one great book but a favorite book genre full of them.

This is my struggle. This is the problem that drives so many of my blog posts. We don’t like to waste our time, don’t want a bad reading experience and we’d like to have every book be a five star winner. 

That’s not realistic. But, we can improve our odds by identifying exactly what we’re looking for and naming it.  

How do you create your favorite book subgenre? 

  1. Identify your favorite genres
  2. Pinpoint the top characteristics you want
  3. Find the descriptive words to name your subgenre
  4. Set up a group or list for your subgenre
  5. Let people know about it 

What good does it do to create a subgenre? You can build community around it. You can connect to other people. There’s probably other people out there looking for your subgenre. You can categorize books without giving spoilers. That’s a plus.

I created my own favorite subgenre. 

Introducing for the first time (drum roll please)

Commendable Lit!

I’ll show you step by step how to do it yourself and tell you about mine.

Identify your favorite genres

Stop and think about your best reading experiences. Which books made you want to start over again at the beginning? Which books stay with you as move through your week? Which books transported you from your daily life to another reality? 

Which reading experiences do you want to repeat or recreate? 

Of those books, which genre do they fall into? 

If you’re having trouble read How to Find Your Favorite Book Genre. 

Pinpoint the top characteristics you want

Here’s the problem:  You don’t like all the books in your favorite genre. So, what is it that makes them winners or losers? 

What part of the genre would you want to throw away? Which would you like to keep? 

Which authors do you love? Why?

An ongoing problem that has driven a lot of my blog posts is the problem of finding well-written books that don’t glorify, celebrate or normalize immorality. 

I wrote Why Don’t Books Have Ratings Like Movies? to explore this topic. In doing research for that question, I learned some interesting things. 

One thing is the small probability that books will ever have a universal content rating system. 

Next I wrote How to Find Good Clean Books

Then I wrote a series of lists of clean books:

24 Exceptional Clean Fiction Books for Adults

Clean Romance Novels for Adults

and Clean Beach Reads

Identifying those characteristics is critical.

Find the descriptive words to name your subgenre

Finding accurate words to describe your new subgenre is key to communicating the distinctives of your subgenre. 

I love word hippo as a resource for finding just the right word. 

I spent some time there trying to pin down words that really describe the books I love. 

When I stumbled across commendable I knew I hit the jack pot, because two uses of the word fit perfectly. 

“Having or showing high moral standards”  and “worthy of being recommended”. 

Those are the kind of books I love to read. 

I chose Lit because it doesn’t sound as high brow as literature, but still conveys the idea of works of fiction. 

Voilà!

A new subgenre is born: Commendable Lit

Set up a group or list for your subgenre

Next I created a list on Goodreads and added forty some titles that I feel epitomizes this subgenre. 

There are multiple ways to do this, such as a facebook group. Even a paid membership could be an option if you gain a following. 

Let people know about it 

The final step is to get the word out. 

The internet and social media has many avenues to make this easy. Like minded readers will be on some platform that you can find and connect with them. 

You know your favorite places to connect on the web. Take advantage of those or explore new platforms. 

How Do Stories Develop Empathy in Kids?

Helping kids develop empathy for others might be as simple as reading them stories.

I remember reading a story to my five year old son. It was about a little girl who gave away her favorite doll at Christmas time to a needy child. He was so moved by this act that he cried. 

Seeing his tender heart touched me. I witnessed up close the power of story to teach empathy.

Empathy is about understanding the pain that someone else is feeling and joining them in their sorrow. It often leads to some action to help relieve the pain. 

The amazing thing is that we can have real emotions triggered by fictional people. We can be moved to compassion and sympathy by hearing the plight of a fictional character. 

Being able to crawl into the skin of another human is a critical life skill. Doing it with other people might be hard. Starting with a fictional character is easier. 

The fact is, when we get lost in a story, we start to feel the characters emotions. We put our selves in their place. How would we feel if we were there in that situation? What would we be thinking? What would we do?

Research shows that parts of our brains are affected when we identify with fictional characters.

The pity and compassion we develop for a fictional character is real even if the character isn’t. It’s practice for having compassion for the real people in our lives. It helps us to reach out in love and sympathy and show others that we “weep with those who weep” and “rejoice with those who rejoice”.

Who can we feel empathy for? The list starts with the financially disadvantaged, physically disabled, racially different, culturally different and socially handicapped.

Some books teach these principles better than others.

Best Books for Teaching Empathy to Kids

In C.S. Lewis’ The Voyage of the Dawn Treader, Eustace Scrubb has a lot of problems. Chief among them is that he doesn’t read the right sort of books.

It’s an easy problem to fall into. But with a little forethought and research, we can surround ourselves and our kids with the right sort of books.

What are the right sort of books? 

Literary fiction, to start with. 

Julianne Chiaet writes in Scientific American about a study that compared the effects of reading non-fiction, popular fiction, literary fiction or no reading at all. 

After reading, “the participants took a test that measured their ability to infer and understand other people’s thoughts and emotions.” 

Those in the literary fiction group scored higher than the other three.

According to the article, literary fiction “focuses more on the psychology of characters and their relationships.”

Popular fiction tends to focus more on exciting plots and less on characters’ personal growth dealing with thoughts and feelings. 

Besides the genre of literary fiction, certain themes are important as well as characters who are suffering or underprivileged in some way.

I previewed a stack of books that I found referenced on the internet as good resources to teach empathy. For the most part, I was underwhelmed.

A few stood out and I included them in my top picks.  

The search reminded me about stories I heard as a child such as The Little Match Girl

It’s written by Hans Christian Andersen, the same author who wrote The Ugly Duckling and The Emperor’s New Clothes. 

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On a cold and snowy New Year’s Eve, a poor peddler girl is unable to sell any of her matches. She can’t return home because unsold inventory will result in a beating from her father. She has lost her shoes and her feet are red and blue with cold. 

She huddles in a corner and strikes a match against the wall. She warms her hands in it’s glow and imagines roast goose and Christmas trees. 

She strikes a bundle of matches and imagines her grandmother in heaven beckoning her to come. 

Her body is found in the morning as the angels have carried her spirit away. 

I admit it. It was heart breaking then. It’s heart breaking now. Are we afraid of broken hearts? Do we think that children can not handle the harsh realities of life?

Amazingly, this is a hopeful story. It paints the picture of heaven, of a better life to come. 

But it is tragic as well, certainly. A little girl so cold that she froze to death, no celebration, no feast, no warmth, no mercy and kindness. 

The vivid portrayal of the poor little match girl should stir our hearts, even though the little match girl is fictional. We don’t even know her name. What we know is her suffering. 

Hans Christian Anderson, in just a few words, is able to portray the heavy weight of poverty, not just physical, material poverty, but the lack of kindness and compassion in a young child’s life. 

Our sense of justice is offended by the unfairness of it all.  No one should have to suffer the way the little match girl did. 

Someone should have had pity on her. 

Stirring up emotions for a fictional little girl is the beginning of empathy. It’s a short jump from feeling emotions towards a fictional character to feeling emotions for real people. They are actually the same emotions. 

Studies of brain imaging show the same areas of the brain are activated when responding emotionally to fiction as responding to live events.

Maybe we shouldn’t be afraid of telling stories to kids that will produce a real emotional response.

5 Best Picture Books to Teach Empathy to Kids

1. Little Blue Truck by Alice Schertle

Little Blue Truck is a friendly sort, but he really shines when the big dump truck gets stuck in the mud and he rallies his friends to help him out. 

2. Bear Feels Sick by Karma Wilson

Illness in a friend is a good time to flex those empathy muscles. Bear’s friends reach out to care for him when he’s sick. 

3. We’re All Wonders by R. J. Palacio

Auggie has a significant facial deformity, but the message of this book is that we’re all more alike than we are different. 

4. The Rabbit Listened by Cori Doerrfeld

Taylor’s huge creation made of blocks is destroyed, making Taylor sad. Different animals stop in, each with their own approach to help, but Taylor appreciates it most when Rabbit just listens. 

5. Last Stop on Market Street by Matt de la Pena

CJ and his Grandma ride the bus home from church and he wonders why they don’t have a car, why he doesn’t have an iPod, why they get off in the dirty part of town. His grandmother helps him see the beauty and blessings of life. 

6 Best Chapter Books to Teach Empathy to Kids

1. El Deafo by Cece Bell

A graphic novel that tells how Cece, a hearing impaired girl, deals with devices that help and relationships that are complicated by her disability. 

2. The Hundred Dresses by Eleanor Estes

When Wanda is ridiculed by her classmates for wearing the same faded blue dress to school every day, she claims she has a hundred dresses at home. Her classmates learn too late the importance of kindness.

3. Wonder by R.J. Palacio

August Pullman was born with a facial deformity. Homeschooled till the fifth grade, Auggie is starting school for the first time. How can his mom, dad and sister help him navigate the social land mines of middle school? 

4. The War that Saved My Life by Kimberly Brubaker Bradley

In London during World War II, children were sent to the country to flee the air raids. But for ten year old Ada, who has a twisted foot and a cruel mother, joining her brother to leave home is a chance at a new life. 

5. A Single Shard by Linda Sue Park

Tree-ear is an orphan who becomes a potter’s apprentice in ancient Korea. He learns how to give and receive kindness. 

6. A Place to Hang the Moon by Kate Albus

William, Edmund and Anna are recently orphaned siblings who are evacuated from London during the war. Their commitment to each other and longing for a real family drives this heart warming story. 

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Since Hans Christian Andersen’s stories are now in the public domain, I’ve included the entire text of The Little Match Girl here. Find more of his stories online for free at Project Gutenberg.

THE LITTLE MATCH  GIRL

Most terribly cold it was; it snowed, and was nearly quite dark, and evening—the last evening of the year. In this cold and darkness there went along the street a poor little girl, bareheaded, and with naked feet. When she left home she had slippers on, it is true; but what was the good of that? They were very large slippers, which her mother had hitherto worn; so large were they; and the poor little thing lost them as she scuffled away across the street, because of two carriages that rolled by dreadfully fast.

One slipper was nowhere to be found; the other had been laid hold of by an urchin, and off he ran with it; he thought it would do capitally for a cradle when he some day or other should have children himself. So the little maiden walked on with her tiny naked feet, that were quite red and blue from cold. She carried a quantity of matches in an old apron, and she held a bundle of them in her hand. Nobody had bought anything of her the whole livelong day; no one had given her a single farthing.

She crept along trembling with cold and hunger—a very picture of sorrow, the poor little thing!

The flakes of snow covered her long fair hair, which fell in beautiful curls around her neck; but of that, of course, she never once now thought. From all the windows the candles were gleaming, and it smelt so deliciously of roast goose, for you know it was New Year’s Eve; yes, of that she thought.

In a corner formed by two houses, of which one advanced more than the other, she seated herself down and cowered together. Her little feet she had drawn close up to her, but she grew colder and colder, and to go home she did not venture, for she had not sold any matches and could not bring a farthing of money: from her father she would certainly get blows, and at home it was cold too, for above her she had only the roof, through which the wind whistled, even though the largest cracks were stopped up with straw and rags.

Her little hands were almost numbed with cold. Oh! a match might afford her a world of comfort, if she only dared take a single one out of the bundle, draw it against the wall, and warm her fingers by it. She drew one out. “Rischt!” how it blazed, how it burnt! It was a warm, bright flame, like a candle, as she held her hands over it: it was a wonderful light. It seemed really to the little maiden as though she were sitting before a large iron stove, with burnished brass feet and a brass ornament at top. The fire burned with such blessed influence; it warmed so delightfully. The little girl had already stretched out her feet to warm them too; but—the small flame went out, the stove vanished: she had only the remains of the burnt-out match in her hand.

She rubbed another against the wall: it burned brightly, and where the light fell on the wall, there the wall became transparent like a veil, so that she could see into the room. On the table was spread a snow-white tablecloth; upon it was a splendid porcelain service, and the roast goose was steaming famously with its stuffing of apple and dried plums. And what was still more capital to behold was, the goose hopped down from the dish, reeled about on the floor with knife and fork in its breast, till it came up to the poor little girl; when—the match went out and nothing but the thick, cold, damp wall was left behind. She lighted another match. Now there she was sitting under the most magnificent Christmas tree: it was still larger, and more decorated than the one which she had seen through the glass door in the rich merchant’s house.

Thousands of lights were burning on the green branches, and gaily-colored pictures, such as she had seen in the shop-windows, looked down upon her. The little maiden stretched out her hands towards them when—the match went out. The lights of the Christmas tree rose higher and higher, she saw them now as stars in heaven; one fell down and formed a long trail of fire.

“Someone is just dead!” said the little girl; for her old grandmother, the only person who had loved her, and who was now no more, had told her, that when a star falls, a soul ascends to God.

She drew another match against the wall: it was again light, and in the lustre there stood the old grandmother, so bright and radiant, so mild, and with such an expression of love.

“Grandmother!” cried the little one. “Oh, take me with you! You go away when the match burns out; you vanish like the warm stove, like the delicious roast goose, and like the magnificent Christmas tree!” And she rubbed the whole bundle of matches quickly against the wall, for she wanted to be quite sure of keeping her grandmother near her. And the matches gave such a brilliant light that it was brighter than at noon-day: never formerly had the grandmother been so beautiful and so tall. She took the little maiden, on her arm, and both flew in brightness and in joy so high, so very high, and then above was neither cold, nor hunger, nor anxiety—they were with God.

But in the corner, at the cold hour of dawn, sat the poor girl, with rosy cheeks and with a smiling mouth, leaning against the wall—frozen to death on the last evening of the old year. Stiff and stark sat the child there with her matches, of which one bundle had been burnt. “She wanted to warm herself,” people said. No one had the slightest suspicion of what beautiful things she had seen; no one even dreamed of the splendor in which, with her grandmother she had entered on the joys of a new year.

6 Exceptional True Life Stories for Christians

The power of true life stories is our ability to relate to the story teller. We have all been at the place when our courage has failed. When we’ve wondered if we could take it any more. Hearing the inspiring stories of those up against the most difficult tests life has to offer, we borrow courage from their stories. 

Rehearsing the end of their stories helps us to persevere in the middle of ours. Because we don’t know the end of our story. We need the hope of knowing the end of someone else’s to know we will endure. 

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Everything Sad is Untrue by Daniel Nayeri

What it’s about:

Daniel Nayari as a child fled with his family to escape religious persecution in Iran. After a stint in Dubai and Italy they finally land in Oklahoma. He explores the memories of family members left behind, the stories of family history and his own floundering to adjust linguistically, culturally and socially. 

What I loved:

I have an unusual affinity to the author, because my earliest memories are of Iran, too, where I spent the first five years of my life. More than that, though, is the struggle to fit in to a new culture, to find our place in our family and in our world. 

What you should know:

Many times memoirs contain triggers that should be included in content warnings. I don’t see that as a big danger in this one. There’s a few things that would be upsetting to sensitive readers, but mostly I see this appropriate for all audiences. 

This is not a linear, chronological story. Be prepared for disjointed scenes and interwoven stories. It is officially listed as fiction, because the line between what really happened and what didn’t is blurry. 

Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus by Nabeel Qureshi

What it’s about:

Nabeel Qureshi’s journey of faith from a devout Muslim family to his conversion to Christianity. 

What I loved:

An authentic journey of faith and a sympathetic look at the family life of devout Muslims. The author’s transparency and clarity are amazing. 

What you should know:

The consequences of a Muslim converting to another faith are severe. It looks different in the United States than in countries governed by militant muslims. This is a dynamic that isn’t widely understood. 

Find more similar books in my article Books Like Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus

This Beautiful Truth by Sarah Clarkson

What it’s about:

Sarah Clarkson grew up in a tight knit homeschooling family and she explores her battle with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. 

What I loved: The care for word smithing and the authenticity of human longing. I picked up this book hoping for a better understanding of OCD and walked away with so much compassion for those who struggle.   

What you should know: Appropriate for all ages. 

Blue Like Jazz by Donald Miller

What it’s about:

Donald Miller traces his early years through college and beyond focusing on dealing with disappointments with parents, faith and church. 

What I loved:

I’ve reread Blue Like Jazz several times and it gets me every time. It’s raw and transparent in the painful ache of not understanding our human parents or God’s dealing with us. It’s beautifully written and achingly poignant.

What you should know:

Even though Donald Miller’s story is set in a time and place in history, his story is timeless. 

The Hiding Place by Corrie ten Boom

What it’s about:

The ten Boom family lived Holland during the German occupation of their country during World War II. Living out their faith demanded that they hide Jews from the regime. These actions had consequences that continued to test their faith. 

What I loved:

The faith and courage of Corrie ten Boom. It was the lifetime faith of generations that caused her family to protect God’s chosen people, the Jews, from the evil of Hitler’s regime. 

What you should know:

The story of the ten Boom family might challenge your concept of God’s sovereignty. How can a loving, all-powerful God allow the events of World War II to occur? 

More books like The Hiding Place

Unbroken by Laura Hillenbrand

What it’s about:

Luis Zamperini was an Olympic runner who served in the Pacific theater in World War II. Multiple times he was pushed to the limits of human endurance. He crammed several lifetimes of experience into a couple of decades.

What I loved:

A testimony to God’s faithfulness to his own, even before they call out to Him. 

What you should know:

Luis Zamperini’s story is harsh and incredible: survival in the face of evil. Struggle against inner demons as well as outer ones. 

Looking for more great books? Read 5 Books about Humanity’s Greatest Rescue.

13 Best Self Care Books

Self care is a trendy term that is fuzzy in definition, partly because taking care of yourself has so many facets.  

This list covers a wide range of self care practices in the areas of physical, relational, organizational, and general life management. 

I leaned towards the books with general principles that would apply to most people. If you face known health concerns or specific personal challenges then research the experts who have experience in that area. 

My top four picks for best self care books are Margins, Boundaries, Why We Sleep and The Lazy Genius Way. 

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Sleep, Diet and Exercise

Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker

Why We Sleep is a critical work for every human.  

Walker explains the studies behind much of what we know about sleep and builds on that understanding with the latest findings, including his own two decades of research. 

From circadian rhythms to melatonin and caffeine, REM sleep, dreams and sleep disorders, Walker offers a fascinating and engaging window into the world of sleep and dreams. 

Together with diet and exercise, sleep comprises a critical piece of our overall health, but one that is often overlooked and neglected. 

Highly recommended for everyone. 

Food Rules by Michael Pollan

If you’re confused by all the contradictions in nutritional advice and are looking for some bite-sized (haha) nuggets of wisdom, this book is for you. 

It’s blessedly short, practical and devoid of the plethora of citations that prove it’s points. The author assures us that the rules are built on sound scientific research, though to actually access sources you need to read his other book, In Defense of Food

Everything boils down to seven words: Eat Food. Not too much. Mostly plants. 

Each phrase is also the name of one section of the book which heads up the 64 rules. The rules expand the wisdom of avoiding processed foods, eating in moderation and majoring on plants in your diet. 

If you’re at a starting point of wanting to transition out of the standard American diet, Pollan will point the way to healthier eating. 

The Whole 30 by Melissa Hartwig Urban and Dallas Hartwig

What makes The Whole 30 plan revolutionary? Basically, it’s the contrast to what a normal diet looks like. 

The whole 30 is a food plan to eat differently for 30 days. A lot of the success comes from restricting food that does harm to our bodies, such as sugar.  Other foods are restricted as well, such as dairy and grains. 

In place of the restricted food, the focus is on healthy fats, meats, fruits and vegetables. 

It’s hard, but it’s not hard. 

One of the often quoted phrases from the book is that it’s not hard. “Losing a parent is hard. Beating cancer is hard. Birthing a baby is hard. Drinking your coffee black is. not. hard.” It’s important to keep it in perspective. 

On the other hand, it’s hard to break habits associated with food. Food choices, preparation and consumption is pervasive, touching every area of our lives. Changing those habits is not easy, even if it’s only for 30 days. 

Spark by John J. Ratey

A compelling look at exercise and it’s benefits. 

Spark is full of engaging stories of innovative people who have discovered and reaped the benefits of exercise. This includes students, the elderly, those suffering from anxiety, depression and addiction. 

If you’re looking for motivation to become more active, this book will give you the spark you need. 

Born to Run by Christopher McDougall

Born to Run reads like a novel. 

Christopher McDougall is a writer and ultra marathoner who found himself in the middle of a runner’s drama. 

While researching the secrets of the Tarahumara Indians of Mexico, who can run hundreds of miles without rest, he stumbles onto some discoveries about health and life. 

How transferable are these principles to the average American couch potato? Good question. But you will certainly be entertained by this fascinating tale along the way. 

Money, Time and Life Management

The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey

Out of all the financial gurus out there, why listen to Dave Ramsey?  What sets Dave apart is his understanding of human nature and the emotional roadblocks that keep people from make good financial decisions.

Part of his signature advice is the “debt snowball”.  Arranging your debts from smallest to largest doesn’t necessarily make sense, except, you need the encouragement of seeing progress, of seeing a debt paid off . . . “sometimes motivation is more important than math”. This encouragement keeps you on track to meet your financial goals.

Another thing that sabotages a good plan is an emergency expense.  Planning for emergencies is a bedrock principle for success financially, according to Dave.

He suggests two ways to do this.  First is a small emergency fund.  Later, a larger fund is created in preparation for a financial tidal wave.

It takes an intensity and focus to succeed financially. Dave calls it “gazelle intensity”.

The book oozes with stories of people who have overcome significant obstacles to achieve financial freedom. These serve as an inspiration and encouragement to those in the trenches.

 Margin by Richard Swenson

“Margin is the space that once existed between ourselves and our limits. Today we use margin just to get by. This book is for anyone who yearns for relief from the pressure of overload. Reevaluate your priorities, determine the value of rest and simplicity in your life, and see where your identity really comes from. The benefits can be good health, financial stability, fulfilling relationships, and availability for God’s purpose.”– from Amazon

When we live without margin, we live on the edge. We live on the brink of breakdown because of the overload. 

Swenson argues that we need that cushion of unclaimed resources as a buffer for times of crisis. We need margin in our lives in the areas of emotional energy, physical energy, finances and time. Using the maximum of every resource increases our stress and pain. Leaving some unused margin in our resources reduces our stress and pain and allows us to rest.

The Lazy Genius Way by Kendra Adachi

In easy to digest, bite sized pieces, Kendra Adachi lays out the rationale and outline for living life as a Lazy Genius. “Embrace What Matters, Ditch What Doesn’t and Get Stuff Done, ” according to the subtitle.

Kendra gives you a framework for making your life work for you. Heavy on insight and low on guilt. Feeling like a failure doesn’t help. Getting clear on what’s important is a critical first step. She calls it naming what matters. 

Paradigm shift is overused, but that describes it. Call it creating a new mindset, seeing things differently or approaching life management without the guilt. 

I’m calling it an important self care book because naming what matters and doing what’s most important will reduce stress, even if what matters most is taking care of others.

Atomic Habits by James Clear

In the avalanche of self-help books, Atomic Habits stands out from the pack. James Clear communicates clearly about habits, routines and systems making profound observations about the science of transformation. 

There’s several reasons why Atomic Habits is such a great book. First of all, is the depth of understanding of how habits work in our lives and how powerful they are for life change. 

Another reason is the power of habits to increase focus and productivity in our lives. 

The third reason is that it’s a ground breaking book from a thought leader that challenges the status quo. 

On his website, James Clear lists his top 100 recommended books, many in the areas of personal development and life change. 

relationships

If you’re looking for more books on practical, everyday change take a look at my post Books like Atomic Habits

Better Relationships

The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman

The 5 Love Languages is a perennial best seller.

Gary Chapman discovered five main ways people express love and how to understand which way communicates best to individuals. 

Understanding these concepts and using them well improves all the important relationships in our lives.

What are the five different ways that humans communicate love?

  • Acts of service
  • Gifts
  • Quality time
  • Words of affirmation
  • Physical touch

Boundaries by Cloud and Townsend

In the quest for healthy relationships it’s important to understand and set good boundaries. 

How can we say “no” to people who need us? How can we take time off to rest and refresh when people need us? Where does my life stop and someone else’s begins?

What is the difference between healthy interdependence and unhealthy co-dependence?

Cloud and Townsend explain what boundaries are and how to set good ones. 

Gratitude and Decluttering

The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo

Kondo’s little book has gotten a lot of buzz, for good reason.

She attacks the problem of decluttering with her signature question when faced with whether to keep or not. “Does it spark joy?”

Kondo attacks common myths, such as do a little every day. Simple, profound principles to help you get your living space in order.

One Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp

 Every person in the world knows pain and heartache.  And every person can number their blessings.

Ann Voskamp challenges us to be intentional about looking for and expressing gratitude.  Even though I read it years ago, it colors my thinking to this day.

I understand that her poetic prose doesn’t appeal to everyone.  Grammar Geeks beware.  But the message is universal and important.

Even though self care is a fuzzy concept, I believe it’s important, however we understand it.

Interested in more books along these lines? Read my article on The Best Books on Life Management

Who is Aslan in the Real World?

Who is Aslan in the Chronicles of Narnia?

Aslan is the central figure in all seven Narnia books. (Apparently, Aslan is Turkish for lion.) All the stories revolve around him.

He is the King over all, but not tied down to a location— he comes and goes at his own desire. He also holds the ultimate power and understands the deepest magic. He is able to defeat evil by sacrificing his own life, the reverse of the common belief about the most powerful.

Aslan the talking lion is a deeply layered, complex character—fierce and playful, powerful and gentle.

No wonder Narnia is so compelling, with Aslan ruling there. 

Who is Aslan in The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe?

Aslan is first introduced by reputation only, when Mr. Beaver is talking to the Pevensie children. 

“Aslan is a lion- the Lion, the great Lion.” “Ooh” said Susan. “I’d thought he was a man. Is he-quite safe? I shall feel rather nervous about meeting a lion”…”Safe?” said Mr Beaver …”Who said anything about safe? ‘Course he isn’t safe. But he’s good. He’s the King, I tell you.” 

As the story progresses, it’s Aslan who defeats the White Witch and ends her reign by the willing sacrifice of his own life. 

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Who is Aslan in the real human world?

At the end of The Voyage of the Dawn Treader, when Lucy is returning to England and is told that she won’t be coming back to Narnia she is distraught. 

 “It isn’t Narnia, you know,” sobbed Lucy. “It’s you. We shan’t meet you there. And how can we live, never meeting you?”

“But you shall meet me, dear one,” said Aslan.

“Are -are you there too, Sir?” said Edmund.

“I am,” said Aslan. “But there I have another name. You must learn to know me by that name. This was the very reason why you were brought to Narnia, that by knowing me here for a little, you may know me better there.”

This interchange provoked readers to ask who Aslan is in our world?

When C.S. Lewis was asked by 11-year-old Hila Newman what Aslan’s other name was, he turned the question back to her to reason it out for herself

As to Aslan’s other name, well I want you to guess. Has there never been anyone in this world who (1.) Arrived at the same time as Father Christmas. (2.) Said he was the son of the great Emperor. (3.) gave himself up for someone else’s fault to be jeered at and killed by wicked people. (4.) Came to life again. (5.) Is sometimes spoken of as a Lamb…. Don’t you really know His name in this world. Think it over and let me know your answer!

Who is Aslan supposed to represent? Is Aslan God or Jesus? 

This can’t be answered without a basic understanding of the trinity. The Christian doctrine of the trinity is that God exists in three persons— God the Father, God the Son (Jesus Christ) and God the Holy Spirit. In a mystery that is hard for the finite mind to grasp, these three persons exist together in one— God. 

Those familiar with Christian theology can easily see the parallels Lewis draws in The Lion, the Witch and Wardrobe between Aslan and Jesus Christ. 

In The Magician’s Nephew, we see Aslan as Creator of all things. In The Horse and his Boy we see him as Comforter. The Aslan character is more complex than just one person of the trinity. He embodies all three. 

So, yes, he represents Jesus Christ and yes, he represents God

The character of Aslan fleshes out the biblical imagery as the Lion of Judah.

Aslan as Redeemer

The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe was the first Narnia book that Lewis wrote. In it, Aslan willingly laid down his life. He was slaughtered by the enemy as a ransom for the traitor, Edmund Pevensie  After his death, he returned to life. The willing sacrifice of his life parallels the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ as a ransom for every sinner. 

Aslan as Creator

The Magician’s Nephew is the book that tells the story of the creation of Narnia and surrounding countries in Lewis’s alternate reality. The children from England arrived in Narnia in time to witness the death of one world and the birth of a new one. They watched Aslan as he sang the song that brought it into being. 

Aslan as the Comforter

There’s not much depiction in the books of Aslan as God the Holy Spirit.

But one scene in The Horse and his Boy brings to mind God the Holy Spirit as the Comforter. 

It’s when Shasta is frightened spending the night alone among the tombs. A stray cat comes to keep him company and comfort him through the night. 

At the end of the book, when Aslan explains to Shasta the many times he intervened in Shasta’s life, he includes the incident of the comforting cat. 

“I was the lion.” And as Shasta gasped with open mouth and said nothing the Voice continued. “I was the lion who forced you to join with Avaris. I was the cat who comforted you among the houses of the dead. I was the lion who drove the jackals from you while you slept. I was the lion who gave the Horses new strength of fear for the last mile so that you should reach King Lune in time. And I was the lion you do not remember who pushed the boat in which you lay, a child near death, so that it came to shore where a man sat, wakeful at midnight, to receive you.” 

Every metaphor and allegory breaks down at some point, but Lewis does a masterful job of representing the many facets of God in the character of Aslan. 

I think C.S. Lewis was successful in his attempt to “smuggle theology behind enemy lines”.

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