- You can check them out from the a library instead.
- Your taste in books is individual. Just because the masses like it, doesn’t mean you will. The masses can be deceived.
- Bestsellers aren’t necessarily the best books. They might be well marketed. They might have been released during a “dead spot” with no significant competition.
- New authors need your support more than established authors.
- Get book recommendations from someone you trust, rather than a bestsellers list. (Modern Mrs. Darcy, Read Aloud Revival)
- Read what your friends are reading. They’re your friends for a reason– you have common interests and values.
- Check out Amazon and Goodreads reviews to find favorites in your favorite genre and books similar to your favorites.
- Take a good look at the people endorsing the book. If you trust them, you can buy with more confidence.
- Best selling hardback books will eventually come out in paperback and sometimes, more economically, in mass market paperback. If you are patient and vigilant, you might be able to catch the e-book on sale.
- Some bestsellers you will love. Some are well written and sell lots of copies for good reasons. Just be choosy.
We’ve had snow here several times this month and it just feels wrong to be cold in April.
Some great reads and re-reads this month (plus a few that were abandoned and didn’t make the list).
Linking up with Modern Mrs. Darcy’s Quick Lit for April.
Living Forward by Michael Hyatt
I think if I would have read Living Forward 25 years ago before I discovered Steven Covey’s Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, it would have revolutionized my life. Reading it now feels like a good reminder.
This book is for you if: you’re struggling with clarity, purpose, your life is out of balance or you’re flailing in some area of life.
This book is not for you if: you have a good handle on life’s direction, setting goals and you’re making progress in areas you want to improve and grow.
That being said, I’m still a huge Michael Hyatt fan. I listen to his podcast regularly and I highly recommend his book, Platform.
The Nature of the Beast by Louise Penny
The Nature of the Beast is the 10th book in Louise Penny’s Inspector Gamache series and I read it first. Let me first say, I love an honorable hero.
As intriguing as James Bond movies are with all the fun spy gadgets and suspenseful plot lines, I don’t like James Bond because he’s a playboy.
On the other hand, Jack Ryan is just as brave, clever and cunning, but he’s a great family man. He has a solid, loving marriage and reads Dr. Suess to his kids. Can’t rate much higher than that for me.
That being said, I love Inspector Gamache’s honorable character. I love the values he stands for. I truly believe we shape cultural norms with fiction. For all the talk of being politically correct these days, I believe Judeo-Christian values can co-exist with great art and I applaud anyone who can do both.
I also love the way Louise Penny has human nature nailed. The intricacies, the complexities and the subtlties. It’s all there.
Still Life by Louise Penny
Still Life by Louise Penny is the first Inspector Gamache novel and I read it after the tenth.
Still Life had everything that I loved about The Nature of the Beast except for one thing.
There was a small story thread in the book that bothered me. Since I’m still wrestling with how to address it, I’ll leave it alone for now. There’s still a lot to love. I’ll be looking for more in the series.
Hands Free Life: Nine Habits for Overcoming Distractions, Living Better and Loving More by Rachel Macy Stafford
I appreciate the author’s insights, love her writing and I’m taking her philosophy of life to heart. One problem that makes it hard for me to relate to her is her age and stage of life.
I turn 49 next month. I’ve been married 28 years. My oldest is 24 and my youngest is 16. So, what she’s dealing with in her life is a totally different scenario from mine.
I read a lot from authors in their twenties and thirties. Honestly, they have a lot to offer. But, occasionally, it’s nice to hear from someone who’s done some miles. Not that every mature person is wise. Some people have been around the block but didn’t learn anything on the trip. But, I do appreciate reflections from thoughtful, observant people with years of life experience.
Partly stimulated by these thoughts and since I’m turning 49 next month I’m working on a series posts: advice to my 19-year-old self, advice to my 29-year-old self and advice to my 39-year-old self. Stay tuned.
The Penderwicks on Gardam Street by Jeanne Birdsall
There’s no good reason that I am reading children’s literature at this point in my life. My youngest is sixteen and we don’t have any grandchildren (yet). In spite of that, I can’t get enough of the Penderwicks. The second book in the series is satisfyingly predictable.
The Penderwicks at Point Moquette by Jeanne Birdsall
Usually “predictable” is not what you want in fiction, but predictable doesn’t ruin a Penderwick story. Still timeless. Still engaging, quirky characters that are relatable.
Boys in the Boat
I’m reading this aloud to my 16-year-old son, and appreciating it even more the second time. As inspiring as Joe Rantz is as a hero, the interwoven history of our country and Europe at the time these events unfold gives the backdrop that accentuates the drama.
I’m reading the first book in the series to the teens in my carpool. We’re all loving it. I’m so glad I bought the kindle version when it was on sale for a couple of dollars a few weeks ago.
I haven’t joined the adult coloring book craze yet. But have you seen the new journaling Bibles? Some of them are gorgeous.
What are you reading this month?
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The Five Dysfunctions of a Team
Have you ever wondered why some teams can accomplish incredible feats and others can’t accomplish anything? What if there were a way to diagnose the problems and solve them? Now there is.
Five Dysfunctions is a leadership fable. It is a page-turning quick read fiction, for the very reason a good movie is: it’s full of conflict.
“The characters in this book ring true, are completely recognizable, and fully-realized. The book itself is well-written, and, I believe, ranks with the best of the genre.” –Jack Covert, co-author with Todd Sattersten of 100 Best Business Books of All Time
Five Dysfunctions identifies the major obstacles that keep a group from functioning as a team. There are repeatable patterns that keep a team from reaching it’s goals. By identifying these patterns and working to change them, the team can move forward and accomplish it’s goals.
What are the Five Dysfunctions?
Absence of Trust.
Fear of conflict.
Lack of commitment.
Avoidance of accountability.
Inattention to Results.
Lencioni is spot on in his analysis and his resolution. This book is life-changing.
Brené Brown is the poster child for courage.
She gathers data. She tells stories. She uncovers the uncomfortable secrets of whole-hearted living. And she believes in her own research. Even when it’s not what she wants to find.
Vulnerability, she discovered, was a critical element to whole-hearted living. So she became vulnerable.
Her first TED talk went viral, when she talked about her breakdown/ spiritual awakening. She was so transparent that she had a “vulnerability hangover” for 3 days afterwards.
In contrast to those who tote their own personal experience or anecdotal evidence, Brown’s writing carries the weight of her research behind it. Much like “Good to Great”, the numbers are impossible to ignore.
Brené emphasizes the critical element of human connection, the torture of psychological isolation, and the shame that prevents us from connecting.
Dealing with negative emotions is part of the puzzle. Actually feeling them, instead of letting them fester and numbing them with addictions.
It all rings true. Even the uncomfortable parts. Especially the uncomfortable parts.
The transformation in Brené’s life as a result of believing the research is as fascinating as the research itself.
I believe America has lost her way.
She has forgotten the her founding principles and ideals. The sacrifices made and the travail that birthed this country go unappreciated. History is either ignored or twisted.
Rush Limbaugh’s look at the past changes that. What better age group to target to revive our great heritage than junior high? Hitler himself targeted that age to win over a generation.
Rush successfully includes all the elements that fascinate and attract middle schoolers. In the process, he emphasizes the critical principles and ideals that birthed our nation. He highlights the fact that the experiment of communism failed in the very infancy of our country.
He emphasizes the religious beliefs that drove the pilgrims to come in the first place.
He articulates the freedom of religion that existed from the outset and the agreements made between believers and non-believers. It was the very beliefs of the religious that permitted the freedom for all to choose their religious beliefs, without having beliefs imposed on them by governing authorities.
These are the missing core beliefs in our culture today.
Limbaugh’s books provide the urgently needed reminder to young people of the sacrifices made for the freedoms we enjoy today.
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Not many books fit in the category of life-changing.
This one does.
The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg changed my life.
This past year, I’ve been trying to implement a number of systems into my life to get it running more smoothly.
The Money Makeover. Flylady. Trim Healthy Mama. Getting Things Done.
But, there just weren’t enough hours in the day to implement everything, and it was hit and miss at so many of the systems.
After reading the Power of Habit, I thought through my daily routines and realized staying in bed too long in the mornings was sabotaging everything. I have trouble moving in the mornings. Physically moving. It literally takes an hour or two after waking up before my blood starts flowing.
I didn’t realize that one of my basic principles of life was self-defeating.
“Do the worst first,” I tell the kids. Get that over with and you can enjoy the rest.
However–Do the worst first– made me not want to get out of bed.
After reading The Power of Habit, I realized that the reward has to come after the action.
So, here is my reward. One hour of fun reading after I get up at 5:45. Fun reading includes Facebook or whatever books I’ve got going that I’m really enjoying. (Ironically, I have had a lot of trouble finding good books to read. I finally got my lists going at Goodreads, and that has helped me a lot. I also follow a few bloggers that give good recommendations. Modern Mrs. Darcy is my current favorite. I used to read Jack Covert Selects often. Kari Patterson is a new one, and I still check in with Ann Voskamp.)
Sometime in the last year (I’m pretty sure it wasn’t Power of Habit), I read that 21 repetitions to form a habit is a myth. Most people need 28. So, I’ve put it on my calendar. 28 days of getting up at 5:45 rewarded by one hour of fun reading.
It’s working! I’ve done it 17 days in a row. I don’t always get my reward, because, believe it or not, sometimes there are demands on my time before 6:45. But I have gotten up. Out of bed. Every. Single. Day.
Pairing habits is also a good plan. Flylady recommends this. So, most days I’ve also taken my (chewable) vitamins and drink a liter or two of water before 7.
I am very hopeful that I will be able to make further adjustments to my morning routine and get all my other systems under control. It’s hard not to be impatient and try to do it all at once. But, slow and steady wins the race. Baby stepping . . .
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