Morning Tasks and Evening Tasks Make a Difference of Night and Day
In the ongoing drama to manage my life, it’s recently become clear to me the difference been morning tasks and evening tasks.
Really, managing my life isn’t a matter of managing my time. It’s a matter of managing my energy. It’s even more complicated than that, though. It also has to do with managing my will power and my finite decision making ability.
Case in point: processing mail at home. At the end of the work day, my energy, my will power and my decision making ability were all depleted. I couldn’t face sorting through the mail every evening so it would stack up, day after day.
Not until I switched that to a morning task–one that took 3 minutes or less daily, was I able to get on top of the paper clutter piled up in my kitchen that resulted from incoming mail. It made a night and day difference. Ha.
Pairing that three minutes with a task I did every morning–cooking breakfast–meant I had a mental trigger every morning that reminded me it was time to process mail. I found turning the heat down under my eggs down and setting the stove timer for three minutes worked well. In three minutes or less I could pitch the junk, file the kids’ mail and prepare bills for payment.
Granted, I’m in a stage in my life when I’m not fixing breakfast for the family any more. It’s every man for himself at our house at breakfast time. I also fix eggs for my breakfast almost every morning. This plan would still work with oatmeal in the microwave.
I could beat myself up for not figuring this out till I was 49, but I’ll give myself a break. During the time we lived in Mexico, we didn’t have regular mail delivery. There was lots of other stuff to adjust to, but daily mail processing wasn’t included.
That’s more than you wanted to know about my routines, but I’ve found other people’s experience helps me. Maybe you’ll find this helpful. I love figuring myself and my life out and making things work better.
On the flip side, exercising consistently in the evening is working for me. I’m shocked. I figured the depleted will power would work against me. I don’t know if it’s the summer schedule or what, but it’s actually working. Go figure.
Change is an Uphill Climb
Every time I try to implement change in my life, I learn something whether I succeed or fail. Here’s a few insights I’ve gained recently:
- Disappointments are closely tied to expectations.
- It’s hard to set realistic goals.
- Sixty six times in a row to establish a habit. Not 21.
- Trying to implement too much at once causes loss of focus.
- Gaining insight into yourself is always a win
- Don’t forget to reward yourself. (I do, a lot)
- Celebrate the small wins.
- When you’re making progress in one area, don’t beat yourself up for areas you can’t concentrate on.
- Setting yourself up to win is critical. Understand what your obstacles are. Work to get the people around you on board.
- Be patient. There’s lots of time to implement slow change.
- Don’t lose heart. This is one of my hubby’s theme songs. He doesn’t get discouraged very often and he repeatedly reminds others not to lose heart.
I’m about to launch into the umpteenth “life improvement plan” .
Gonna take my own advice to heart.