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Feeling Overwhelmed? Time Management for Busy People

At the core of a rushed life sits a tenacious belief that just isn’t true:

We don’t have enough time.

The truth is we DO have enough time.

We have enough time to complete our mission on this planet.

If there’s too much on the list to be completed in 168 hours a week, maybe we need to scratch something off the list.

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Amy Lynn Andrews has a great little ebook on time management called Tell Your Time.

It does the job that some longer and larger books aren’t able to do.

You effectively set up a time budget, and tell your time where to go, just as you would tell your money where to go.

It presents a system of time management that is centered around your the roles you have in life:  parent, spouse, employee.

You prioritize your time by assigning tasks to your roles.

In this way, you time is spent in the way you pre-determine, rather than frittered away, or spent mindlessly or without focus.

The principle of big rocks applies here.

You need to first put in the big rocks of your time and fit in lesser priorities (small rocks, sand and water) in the cracks around.

Being able to handle your schedule is one of the major victories in conquering overwhelm. Deciding ahead of time what you can delete or delegate makes your schedule and responsibilities manageable.

Maybe we need to pry our fingers off, one by one and let go of that lie that there’s not enough time.

We don’t have to live rushed.

We can breathe deeply. We can live slowly. We can live fully.

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How Do You Want to Spend Your Days?

Maybe because my youngest is starting college.  Maybe because I’ve been wrestling with this concept for the past decade.  Maybe because I’d rather philosophize than do most things.

Whatever the reason, I find this question rattling around in my head since I found it on Amy Lynn Andrew’s blog:

How do you want to spend your days?

It’s a great question for the young person looking at educational options.  It’s a great question for someone in transition re-evaluating their life.

It reveals a deep insight to ask this question first and work backwards from there.

What is your ideal life? What is the dream life that you want for yourself? What do you want your legacy to be? What is the meaning and purpose of your life? What is the mission of your life?

This is really at the heart of creating your best life.

Choosing the path that allows you the freedom to spend your days doing what you love.

How do you want to spend your days?

Do you want to work inside or outside?  Do you want to shower before work or after?  Do you want to work with your hands or with your mind?  Do you want to work with people or be alone?

Do you want to do creative work or maintenance work or organizing work or work with numbers?  Do you want to teach or clean or sell or counsel or diagnose or research?

Do you want structured work hours or do you want flexible work hours?

Do you want to work for a huge corporation, a small business or be a soloprenuer?

Do you want to work with children or young people or adults?

Do you want to help the disadvantaged or the gifted?

What have people told you that you’re good at?

What are you doing when you totally lose track of time and miss meals?

As the old adage says, figure out how to get paid for doing what you love and you’ll never work a day of your life.

What gets you out of bed in the mornings?

What is your bigger why?

How do you want to spend your days?

Then the next question follows, how do you get from here to there?

What training will you need?  What experience?  Who are the experts that can show you the way?  What steps do you need to take to get you from where you are to where you want to be?

Are you doing what you need to do today to be where you want to be tomorrow?

I think it’s valuable to invest some mental energy into these questions.

I think it’s key to creating your best life.

How do you get from where you are to where you want to be?

What are the steps from here to there?

Because, the fact of the matter is, we get stuck.

We settle. We end up living a life that we don’t love.

Of course, often life doesn’t end up the way we planned. Illness, accident, losing loved ones. We can get a curve ball that wasn’t on the radar.

Then you have to regroup.

Do some more soul searching. Spend time in prayer and evaluation.

I’ve been hearing lately that you shouldn’t necessarily be following your passion. Some are saying you should follow your curiosity. Because that is what will continue to motivate you after the passion has cooled.

Getting from here to there isn’t necessarily going to be easy. It might require some education. It might require some crazy hard work. It might require aprenticeship or internship or sitting at the feet of the experts. It might involve some false starts. It might involve new friendships, taking initiative, getting out of your comfort zone. It might take raw courage. It might take blood, sweat and tears. It might take failure. Falling down and getting up. Again and again.

You can’t steer a parked car. Move forward and then alter your course if you need to.

 

 

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Five Minute Friday: Loved

The summer is over.  At least, school is back in session.  And for the first time in more than twenty years, we’re not sending a kid back to school.

With two in college this year and grandparenting on the horizon, we step into a new phase of life.

Linking up with Kate Motaung and the Five Minue Friday Community, today’s word is loved.

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One of the deepest longings of our hearts is the need to be loved.

It gnaws at the soul, it follows us like a lonely puppy, it skirts the edges of our consciousness like  craving for chocolate.

When we live from the solid and secure foundation that we are loved, life is good.

When we question that security, worry creeps in.  And fear and uncertainty.

What a gift to give to a child:  eighteen years of knowing she’s loved.

Our (stolen) philosophy of parenting boils down to two questions a child is asking.  Am I loved?  Can I get my own way?

The answer to the first one is Yes.  Emphatically.  Without question.

The answer to the second one is No.  Unless it’s good for you.  And the timing’s right.  And your work is done.

What a wonderful privilege and opportunity and responsibility:  to demonstrate to a child that’s he’s loved.

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Love stories you can feel good recommending

Sometimes you just need a good love story.  Sometimes you need to give or pick a good love story for someone else.  Here’s ten that you can feel good about recommending.

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Mrs. Mike by Benedict and Nancy Freeman

“A moving love story set in the Canadian wilderness, Mrs. Mike is a classic tale that has enchanted millions of readers worldwide. It brings the fierce, stunning landscape of the Great North to life—and tenderly evokes the love that blossoms between Sergeant Mike Flannigan and beautiful young Katherine Mary O’Fallon.”  — Goodreads

One of my all time favorites. All the feels.

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Christy by Catherine Marshall

“The train taking nineteen-year-old teacher Christy Huddleston from her home in Asheville, North Carolina, might as well be transporting her to another world. The Smoky Mountain community of Cutter Gap feels suspended in time, trapped by poverty, superstitions, and century-old traditions.

But as Christy struggles to find acceptance in her new home, some see her — and her one-room school — as a threat to their way of life. Her faith is challenged and her heart is torn between two strong men with conflicting views about how to care for the families of the Cove.”  –Goodreads

Catherine Marshall takes her mother’s own incredible story and tells it superbly.

 

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Pride and Predjudice by Jane Austen

“‘It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife.’ Thus memorably begins Jane Austen‘s Pride and Prejudice, one of the world’s most popular novels. Pride and Prejudice–Austen’s own ‘darling child’–tells the story of fiercely independent Elizabeth Bennett, one of five sisters who must marry rich, as she confounds the arrogant, wealthy Mr. Darcy. What ensues is one of the most delightful and engrossingly readable courtships known to literature, written by a precocious Austen when she was just twenty-one years old.”–Goodreads

Rightly hailed as one of the greatest love stories of all time.

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Dear Mr. Knightly by Katherine Reay

“Samantha Moore survived years of darkness in the foster care system by hiding behind her favorite characters in literature, even adopting their very words. Her fictional friends give her an identity, albeit a borrowed one. But most importantly, they protect her from revealing her true self and encountering more pain.

After college, Samantha receives an extraordinary opportunity. The anonymous “Mr. Knightley” offers her a full scholarship to earn her graduate degree at the prestigious Medill School of Journalism. The sole condition is that Sam write to Mr. Knightley regularly to keep him apprised of her progress.

As Sam’s true identity begins to reveal itself through her letters, her heart begins to soften to those around her—a damaged teenager and fellow inhabitant of Grace House, her classmates at Medill, and, most powerfully, successful novelist Alex Powell. But just as Sam finally begins to trust, she learns that Alex has secrets of his own—secrets that, for better or for worse, make it impossible for Sam to hide behind either her characters or her letters.”  — Goodreads

I enjoyed the Austen references in this book that enhanced the story.

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Daddy Long Legs by Jean Webster

“When Jerusha Abbott, an eighteen-year-old girl living in an orphan asylum, was told that a mysterious millionaire had agreed to pay for her education, it was like a dream come true. For the first time in her life, she had someone she could pretend was “family.” But everything was not perfect, for he chose to remain anonymous and asked that she only write him concerning her progress in school. Who was this mysterious gentleman and would Jerusha ever meet him?”  –Goodreads

A long time favorite of mine that stands up to re-reading.

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These is My Words by Nancy E. Turner

“A moving, exciting, and heartfelt American saga inspired by the author’s own family memoirs, these words belong to Sarah Prine, a woman of spirit and fire who forges a full and remarkable existence in a harsh, unfamiliar frontier. Scrupulously recording her steps down the path Providence has set her upon–from child to determined young adult to loving mother–she shares the turbulent events, both joyous and tragic, that molded her and recalls the enduring love with cavalry officer Captain Jack Elliot that gave her strength and purpose.

Rich in authentic everyday details and alive with truly unforgettable characters, These Is My Words brilliantly brings a vanished world to breathtaking life again.”–Goodreads

Unpredictable.  Well-written.

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Hannah Coulter by Wendell Berry

“Hannah Coulter is Wendell Berry’s seventh novel and his first to employ the voice of a woman character in its telling. Hannah, the now-elderly narrator, recounts the love she has for the land and for her community. She remembers each of her two husbands, and all places and community connections threatened by twentieth-century technologies. At risk is the whole culture of family farming, hope redeemed when her wayward and once lost grandson, Virgil, returns to his rural home place to work the farm.”–Amazon

Less of a love story, more of a life story the narrative spans decades to get a panoramic view of Hannah’s life.

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Papa’s Wife by Thyra Ferre Bjorn

“This novel follows the lives of a conservative, Swedish minister, Pontus Franzon, and his pretty young wife, Maria, through their years in a parsonage in Lapland, their eight children, and their journey to a new life in America.”– Goodreads

You can’t help but love the Franzon family. This is one I like to re-read.  I enjoy it every time.  Maybe because it’s based on the author’s own history, you are drawn in and feel like one of the family.

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Little Women by Louisa May Alcott

“Grown-up Meg, tomboyish Jo, timid Beth, and precocious Amy. The four March sisters couldn’t be more different. But with their father away at war, and their mother working to support the family, they have to rely on one another. Whether they’re putting on a play, forming a secret society, or celebrating Christmas, there’s one thing they can’t help wondering: Will Father return home safely?”–Amazon

The heart-warming story of Little Women is a classic for a reason.  The March sisters will find a place in your heart.

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Sensible Shoes by Sharon Garlough Brown

“Sharon Garlough Brown tells the moving story of four strangers as they embark together on a journey of spiritual formation: Hannah, a pastor who doesn’t realize how exhausted she is. Meg, a widow and recent empty-nester who is haunted by her past. Mara, a woman who has experienced a lifetime of rejection and is now trying to navigate a difficult marriage. Charissa, a hard-working graduate student who wants to get things right. You’re invited to join these four women as they reluctantly arrive at a retreat center and find themselves drawn out of their separate stories of isolation and struggle and into a collective journey of spiritual practice, mutual support and personal revelation. Along the way, readers will be taken into a new understanding of key spiritual practices and find tangible support for the deeper life with God.” –Goodreads

I found these characters to be well-rounded and relatable.  I also liked an inside look at spiritual disciplines outside of my experience.

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These Happy Golden Years by Laura Ingalls Wilder

“Laura is teaching school, and it’s terrifying! Most of the students are taller than she is, and she must sleep away from home for the first time. Laura is miserable, but the money is needed to keep Mary in a college for the blind.

And every Friday—no matter what the weather—Almanzo Wilder arrives to take Laura home to her family for the weekend. Laura and Almanzo are courting, and even though she’s not yet sixteen, she knows that this is a time for new beginnings.”– Amazon

One the lesser known books in the Little House series, Almanzo and Laura’s love story is heart-warming.

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Is your Identity Discovered or Determined?

Every time I need to write a bio about myself I draw a blank. 

I have a problem trying to write a bio for the simple reason that I don’t know who I am.

Part of it is because I don’t know who I want to be online.  You can’t, after all, be all versions of yourself.  You have to become known for one or two. 

But part of it is a genuine identity crisis rooted in the fact that I’m not sure who I want to become.  

How do I get some clarity on who I am?  How do I describe myself to someone I’ve never met?

Everybody has a lot of pieces to themselves. Maybe global nomads have a few more.

Have you felt the frustration?  The frustration of not knowing who you are?

The realization that before 18, decisions are made for you and then you can start to choose. You can embrace the childhood you didn’t choose and choose the adulthood you want to embrace. You can become who you want to be. You can choose all the pieces of your past that you want to be part of your future.

It’s your choice.

Is it a discovery or a determination?

Certainly, inborn gifts and natural inclinations need to be discovered. God’s leading needs to be sought. But, after all that, your identity can be determined.

You can choose who you will be.

How about what happened when you were in junior high or when you were in fourth grade?  Where you were born and all the experiences of your first eighteen years?

You can embrace that. You can accept it or reject it. You can incorporate it into your future or discard it, knowing it has impacted you, but doesn’t have to define you.

Is your identity discovered or determined?

I suggest both.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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3 Things I Learned, Summer 2018

Linking up with Emily Freeman to share what we’ve learned.

Even good stress can take it’s toll.

This has been a stressful summer. Mostly good stress.  Graduation hoopla.  Wedding bells.  Lots of good stuff.

I’ve learned I need time off to prepare and recuperate from the big events.  I don’t have the physical and social energy to go 24/7 without some down time.

Middle grade novels are good reads when you’re stressed, because they’re easy to follow.  I shared a list of my favorites here.

I crank up my list making when I’m stressed. It’s a survival strategy that serves me well.

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Home organization and financial peace are connected.  Who knew?

I signed up for Rosemarie’s Budget Boot Camp and learned that disorganization can cause you to overspend.  This is a truth that seems so obvious once you have it pointed out.

Rosemarie hits a very pressing problem:  everyone’s too busy to budget.

So, how is this program different from other budgeting programs? First of all, it’s not just about budget. It’s about looking at the whole picture–you’re net worth as well as home organization. Because a lack of home organization is causing you to spend more than you should.

Not being focused on your goals is causing you to spend money on things you want less at the expense of things you want more.

It necessitates a shift in thought, too, from a scarcity mentality to an abundance mentality.

Rosemarie’s story is compelling.  Her advice is actionable.

In depth Bible Studies are one of my favorite ways to learn. 

When we lived in Mexico, I did Beth Moore Bible Studies with a group.  I loved doing them, especially the homework.  Homework has rarely been a problem for me.  Housework is a different story.

This summer, I had a Priscilla Shirer workbook dropped in my lap.  The study is Discerning the Voice of God.

It’s so good to be soaking up truth again in this format.

In this study, I’ve been reminded that God reveals Himself in his own timing. It’s his job to reveal his message. It’s our job to listen and obey. We can’t demand to know when we want to know.

I’ve done this study without the watching the video sessions.  It works. You can still learn a lot.  But, it’s nice to have the video sessions as well.

That’s why I’m excited about the free video sessions for Beth Moore’s study called The Quest.

FREE!!  Video sessions for Beth Moore’s study: The Quest.  For a limited time only. After September, they will be available to purchase.

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I love learning new things.

What have you learned this summer?

 

 

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When the world stopped spinning I got dizzy

“I grew up transient, with change as my constant. I lived a privileged life in many ways, and benefited from a plethora of experiences denied many of my more settled peers. In fact, I felt competent to handle most of what my spinning world threw my way. It was when the world stopped spinning that I got dizzy.” Dr. Rachel Cason

I resonate with Rachel’s words, because her experience mirrors mine.

I’ve lived on the East Coast, the West Coast and the Mid-West.

I’ve lived in the Middle-East, the Far East and Mexico.

My nomadic life began before I was old enough to decide and continued when it  was my turn to choose.  I developed coping skills for transition, not for rootedness.

And now, my world has stopped spinning.

I have unexplained confusion in my life. This is why I write. To untangle it.

One thing I’ve come to believe to my core is the critical importance of community for emotional health.

Maybe for the nomad it looks different.  Maybe for the nomad it becomes more challenging to find people who understand you.

There’s two different ways to incorporate healthy community into your life:  find it and create it.

Two essential elements that both require initiative. In general, they are not going to fall in our laps.

What are some tips for finding community?

Be patient.

Looking for community can be hard. You can feel uncomfortable, awkward, on unfamiliar ground. It might take time to build relationships and bridges. You might feel like people don’t really “get” you.

Trust takes time to develop. New communities don’t look like old communities.

Contribute. Participate. Even when it’s awkward and uncomfortable.

Accept the limitations and imperfections of new communities.

Take advantage of reunions with old communities, but don’t compare. Every community has it’s own personality and timeline.

How about creating community?

We start creating community when we meet someone for coffee or dinner, when we invite them over and even when we bump into them by chance at the store and stop to catch up. Those are the seeds.

But, it can grow to form a group. It could become a party, a retreat, a tradition. It could develop a purpose and a mission. When we start to do life with other people, we create community.

Community is built on individual relationships. Brick by brick. One by one. So strong communities are built on the foundation of strong relationships.

Friends that will help you when you are in trouble, when you need help.

Friends who will listen. Friends who will accept you for who you are, warts and all. Friends who are faithful.

These are the elements for building community.

It doesn’t hurt to have two or three tribes. It’s probably necessary to have overlapping community.

With the internet, it’s easier than ever to find your people, but maybe harder than ever to establish and maintain real relationships.

What truths have you discovered while finding or creating community?

You might also like:  3 Ways Global Nomads Find Community and the search for community as told in metaphor.

 

 

 

 

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Awesome Middle Grade Novels Adults Will Love

I’ve been trying to figure out why I’ve been drawn to middle grade novels recently.

I believe there are multiple reasons, but the primary one boils down to one word: stress.

Middle grade novels offers an easy read.  The plot and characters are not complex.

Nevertheless, they take on some of the weightier issues of life.  Some do it incredibly well.

The middle grades are a great age for shaping opinions, values, attitudes and beliefs.

With my new interest in this genre, I read my first Harry Potter book.  I didn’t include it in this list because a) why would Harry Potter books need more press?  and b) although I can understand the cult following, I’ve read better middle grade.

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On to the books!

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The War That Saved My Life  by Kimberly Brubaker Bradley

“Nine-year-old Ada has never left her one-room apartment. Her mother is too humiliated by Ada’s twisted foot to let her outside. So when her little brother Jamie is shipped out of London to escape the war, Ada doesn’t waste a minute—she sneaks out to join him.

So begins a new adventure of Ada, and for Susan Smith, the woman who is forced to take the two kids in. As Ada teaches herself to ride a pony, learns to read, and watches for German spies, she begins to trust Susan—and Susan begins to love Ada and Jamie. But in the end, will their bond be enough to hold them together through wartime? Or will Ada and her brother fall back into the cruel hands of their mother?” — from GoodReads

Great story.

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Okay for Now by Gary Schmidt

“In this companion novel to The Wednesday Wars, Doug struggles to be more than the “skinny thug” that some people think him to be. He finds an unlikely ally in Lil Spicer, who gives him the strength to endure an abusive father, the suspicions of a town, and the return of his oldest brother, forever scarred, from Vietnam. Schmidt expertly weaves multiple themes of loss and recovery in a story teeming with distinctive, unusual characters and invaluable lessons about love, creativity, and survival.”– from Amazon

Excellent book. LOVED it. 

Deals with so many important themes.

Abusive parent. War veterans. Learning disabilities. Young love. Poverty. Predjudice.

There’s just so much there. And the story is so satisfying.

You know how it is? When a story is satisfying? When all the right people win in the end and the rest get what they deserve?

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Rain, Reign by Ann M. Martin

“Rose Howard has Asperger’s syndrome, and an obsession with homonyms (even her name is a homonym). She gave her dog Rain a name with two homonyms (Reign, Rein), which, according to Rose’s rules of homonyms, is very special. Rain was a lost dog Rose’s father brought home. Rose and Rain are practically inseparable. And they are often home alone, as Rose’s father spends most evenings at a bar, and doesn’t have much patience for his special-needs daughter.

Just as a storm hits town, Rain goes missing. Rose’s father shouldn’t have let Rain out. Now Rose has to find her dog, even if it means leaving her routines and safe places to search. Rose will find Rain, but so will Rain’s original owners.” — from GoodReads

Good story. The characters were believable and endearing. It was a good, inside look at autism. You couldn’t help but root for the heroine.
If that story doesn’t create empathy, I don’t know what will.

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The Boy on the Porch by Sharon Creech

It deals with the joy and pain and challenges of fostering parenting.

A childless couple wake up one day to find a strange boy on their porch. Although there’s no way to contact his parents, they learn that he’s been left there on purpose.

This novel explores what it’s like to love a child that’s not yours, the heartache it brings and why you should do it anyway.

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The Penderwicks by Jeanne Birdsall

5 Stars!  I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this whimsical story. (That’s a lotta love.)  I’m thinking about reading it to the teens in my carpool, since I don’t have any little kids to read it too.  I’ll be giving it to my nieces and nephews, too, when I get the chance.

Four motherless girls on vacation with their father.  Their romps with pets, neighbors and each other:  a simple, but satisfying plot.

I loved the uplifting, engaging characters.  Real heroes.  Great values.   Whimsical.

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The Princess Academy by Shannon Hale

What if you lived in a small kingdom where the prince chooses his bride from the graduates of the Princess Academy?

What if you had the chance for an education that would never be possible otherwise?

I loved this middle grade novel for telling a tale of what could be, the power of knowledge, friendships and courage.

One of my favorite parts of Princess Academy was how they snuck in principles of Commerce and Negotiation. It was fun how that played out.

There were a few weird and whimsical twists, but every fairy tale needs a little magic.

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The Best Bad Luck I Ever Had by Kirsten Levine

“The last thing Harry ‘Dit’ Sims expects when Emma Walker comes to town is to become friends. Proper -talking, brainy Emma doesn’t play baseball or fish too well, but she sure makes Dit think, especially about the differences between black and white. But soon Dit is thinking about a whole lot more when the town barber, who is black, is put on trial for a terrible crime. Together Dit and Emma come up with a daring plan to save him from the unthinkable. Set in 1917 and inspired by the author’s true family history, this is the poignant story of a remarkable friendship and the perils of small-town justice.”– from GoodReads

Alabama in 1917.  A friendship between a white boy and a black girl.  What could go wrong?

I loved the details of this time period.  Add that to a good plot and likable characters and we have a winner.

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The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis

“Fantastic creatures, heroic deeds, epic battles in the war between good and evil, and unforgettable adventures come together in this world where magic meets reality, which has been enchanting readers of all ages for over sixty years. The Chronicles of Narnia has transcended the fantasy genre to become a part of the canon of classic literature.”– from GoodReads

In my opinion, it doesn’t get any better than Lewis’ Chronicles of Narnia for middle grade.

Not only middle grade, but Narnia appeals to every age.

Lewis tells compelling stories with an amazing economy of words.  He weaves timeless truths into  tales that highlight the classic conflict between good and evil.

I can’t recommend them highly enough.

Have you read any middle grade novels that you loved?  Let me know in comments. 

 

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Five Minute Friday: Done

It’s been a long week.  I’m tired. It’s difficult to string words together.

I’m grateful, though, that hard work this week resulted in hitting a business goal I’ve been working on for two and half months.

I have trouble with follow through.  I have trouble finishing.  That’s why it feels so good to be done.

Linking up with Kate Motaung and the Five Minute Friday Community.  This week’s five minute free write is on the word prompt done.

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It feels good to accomplish a difficult goal.

To have worked hard and really pushed yourself and reached the peak.

Because it’s easier to give up. To not follow through. To give valid excuses for not winning.

It’s hard to stay the course. To press on toward the goal.

At least, for me it is.

That’s why it feels good to be done. To know you’ve worked through the messy middle and planted that flag.

Don’t lose heart.

You’ve got this.

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5 Gifts to Help Your Kids Grow Spiritually

The day before my youngest turned 18 I found out I was going to be a grandma.

It seemed fitting.

The end of an era. The beginning of an era.

My son and daughter-in-law are having a girl.

My grand-daughter is going to need some presents from her grandparents. Every Christmas and birthday for the next 18 years. That’s thirty-six special occasions. What if end up with 4 grandkids or ten?

That’s 360 gift giving opportunities.

What can I give her that’s meaningful? That will encourage her spiritual life? There’s a lot of negative influences on kids today.

A customer at the bookstore today told me her mother passed away. Her mother was a regular customer at the store. She bought a Seaside Bible with a zipper for each grandchild when they turned 7. Now that she was gone, her daughter was carrying on the tradition for the grandchildren who were turning 7.

I like that.

I like that it has meaning, that everyone knows and that the tradition continues after Grandma’s gone.

I like that she had an age picked out.

I like that they all got the same thing.

There’s something comforting about traditions.

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I want my grandkids to know God and love Him.

I will be giving books. That’s what I do.

Which ones will I give?

I don’t know for sure, but right now here’s my top picks for each age group:

Ages 0-4

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The Beginner’s Bible

The Beginner’s Bible has become a classic. It’s simple. It’s great for reading aloud, which of course, is the only option at this age.  It stays faithful to the biblical text.

Ages 4-8

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The Jesus Storybook Bible by Sally Lloyd-Jones

I recommend the Jesus Storybook Bible with one caveat. Okay, maybe two.

First of all, I don’t care for the illustrations, but that’s a personal preference.

Secondly, and more importantly, I feel the author has taken some artistic liberties that have resulted in some minor inaccuracies in the stories compared to the Bible.

In spite of that, I feel this book accomplishes something I’ve never seen before in a Bible storybook. Instead of recounting disjointed, individual stories from the Bible, it weaves the big themes of the Bible into the individual accounts.

The plan of salvation and the incarnation of Jesus is highlighted and put into simple language for children.

Tying together a unifying theme of the Bible is huge.

If children can grasp these critical concepts, it’s a gigantic leap forward in their spiritual growth and understanding. Effective communication of these truths is priceless.

Ages 6-9

NIRV Adventure Bible

The New International Readers Version is written at a third grade reading level. It uses an easier vocabulary.

I tell customers that if they are planning to memorize verses from it or follow along in church with the pastor, they should be aware that it won’t line up exactly with the NIV.

But, for beginning or struggling readers, this version could be helpful.  Alongside the entire text of the Bible are explanations and commentary to help kids understand the Bible.

Ages 9-12

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The NIV Adventure Bible

This Bible contains the entire text of the New International Version Bible.  It includes explanations and commentary geared toward 9 to 12 year olds.

The snap closure protects pages and comes in a boys edition and a girl’s edition.

Ages 13 and up

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Jesus Calling  by Sarah Young

Jesus Calling is a daily devotional written from the perspective of Jesus talking to you.

There is a teen edition of Jesus Calling, but I give teens the original version which they can go through year after year.

I wrote about the secret of the success of Jesus Calling here.

So, those are my top picks for helping kids grow spiritually.

Which resources would you recommend?

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